Why is it that women are the ones left holding the baby (literally) after a relationship has broken down? unless she just wanted a sperm donor it takes two to make a baby so the same responsibility and rights should be awarded to both parents whether they want to or not...if the father is going to provide a better home situation then the custody should be awarded to the father with visitation rights to the mother and vice versa...most men dont bother going to court for custody of their children coz they now the courts will decide in the mother's favour most times she doesn't really want the child...she just wants to "fix" the baby daddy but instead turns into a hate spewing vengeful woman even to the point of spending the child's upkeep money on herself...IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR A CHILD USE BIRTH CONTROL, CONDOMS or GET AN ABORTION better yet...CLOSE DEM LEGS there are too many traumatised children out there...what kind of leaders are being raised???

close dem legs for real ..... its hard for some women....

=== Original Message ===
Why is it that women are the ones left holding the baby (literally) after a relationship has broken down? unless she just wanted a sperm donor it takes two to make a baby so the same responsibility and rights should be awarded to both parents whether they want to or not...if the father is going to provide a better home situation then the custody should be awarded to the father with visitation rights to the mother and vice versa...most men dont bother going to court for custody of their children coz they now the courts will decide in the mother's favour most times she doesn't really want the child...she just wants to "fix" the baby daddy but instead turns into a hate spewing vengeful woman even to the point of spending the child's upkeep money on herself...IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR A CHILD USE BIRTH CONTROL, CONDOMS or GET AN ABORTION better yet...CLOSE DEM LEGS there are too many traumatised children out there...what kind of leaders are being raised???

"the same responsibility and rights should be awarded to both parents" - "CLOSE DEM LEGS".

=== Original Message ===
Why is it that women are the ones left holding the baby (literally) after a relationship has broken down? unless she just wanted a sperm donor it takes two to make a baby so the same responsibility and rights should be awarded to both parents whether they want to or not...if the father is going to provide a better home situation then the custody should be awarded to the father with visitation rights to the mother and vice versa...most men dont bother going to court for custody of their children coz they now the courts will decide in the mother's favour most times she doesn't really want the child...she just wants to "fix" the baby daddy but instead turns into a hate spewing vengeful woman even to the point of spending the child's upkeep money on herself...IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR A CHILD USE BIRTH CONTROL, CONDOMS or GET AN ABORTION better yet...CLOSE DEM LEGS there are too many traumatised children out there...what kind of leaders are being raised???

Women left holding the baby are stupid. If you know that you are the one who is going to conceive the baby then a woman needs to pay more attention to the quality of the men giving her seed. I think the quality of the men that make a woman pregnant actually says a lot about the woman than the men.

This new hi5 is pure kak. My reply to this thread was NOT posted.bloody idiots at hi5

I think it's safe to say that there's quite a lot of undesirables having babies out there.These idiots have a selfish and uncaring attitude towards the welfare of their children.It takes two idiots to tango.

Ag,i give up on this hi5! I had posted something with regards to men "not caring" about the children.It seems like i have under 45 seconds to type and post my reply before it gets rejected.I used to have under a minute.

hahahaha keep trying ...its only you

=== Original Message ===
Ag,i give up on this hi5! I had posted something with regards to men "not caring" about the children.It seems like i have under 45 seconds to type and post my reply before it gets rejected.I used to have under a minute.